Feel like your life isn’t changing fast enough?

Written by: Nick Ortner

Do you ever get frustrated and feel like even though you’re trying to do the “personal development” work, your life isn’t changing fast enough?

If so, then I think you’ll enjoy this short 4-minute video with Jessica. 🙂

After you watch, let me know what you thought of it by commenting below.

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  1. Marilyn Haverly says:

    Loved this video! Just talked to my therapist this morning about this issue! Waiting for change isn’t my favorite pastime! So, this was a gift–a funny one, too!

    Thank you,

  2. Joyce Spence says:

    I loved how you told your story of your cow & waiting for the universe – so true but some times its hard to do.

    I absolutely loved the crazy cow and bull jokes. Must find a cow.

    Thanks a Million Jessica,

    Joyce in New Zealand

  3. Name (required) says:

    I found your video nice and entertaining. I can not wait to get to talk to you on monday. I just wanted to point out a few facts. I, Scott Prosser, am interested in your program because I am 39.5 years old and thanks to my Epilepsy I have not lived that much of a social life. My mother will not allow me to love a life of my own and she continuously worries about me or birches at me for whatever she wants to get on me about. I am looking forward towards monday.

    Yours truly,

    Scott Prosser

  4. Lisa says:

    Sweet and funny!

  5. Millie Shea says:

    I absolutely loved it! Well done Jessica.

  6. Marcie Cote says:

    Impatience is one of the things I struggle with, as well….thinking that answers will come like a bolt of lightening in my time frame. Your video is “spot on” and well presented. Thank you for reminding me to enjoy my journey as I wait for answers to come.

  7. Jan says:

    Thanks for the reminder that was appropriate for me right now. We have put our home on the market to sell and I feel frustrated that it didn’t sell immediately! I will take a breath and wait for the perfect timing!

  8. Sheila says:

    I seem to have a lot on my mind these days. I wake up in the middle of the night worrying. One night I remembered The Tapping Solution and tried it, followed by the 23rd Psalm. It took my mind off my worries and I slept the rest of the night. Now I do this whenever necessary and I am so grateful for having learned the Tapping Solution technique from Nick Ortner.

  9. Nancy says:

    Great video. Just last night I watched DVD with Abram Hicks and “they” said the same thing. The Art of Allowing is putting your desires out there and not sabotaging them by doubt. Let the Universe be the Universe. Thanks Jessica. Loved the jokes too.

  10. Lorraine Shays says:

    That was great! I read the bible daily and your story just reminded me of how we always want things in OUR time, but we need to be patient and we will have it in God’s time, because He always has the best things planned for our lives. Too often we mess it up by being too impatient.

  11. Shelley Skinner says:

    I love your message, and your cow jokes!

  12. Julie R. says:

    I loved it. This was perfect timing! It made all the sense to me and where I am today. Thank you both!

  13. Tracie Irvine says:

    Love what you guys do, keep up the GREAT work! It’s so easy for those of us in the healing industry to pretend we have it all together, to prove what we do works. People need to see that we all struggle, we will always struggle, it’s just what we do with the struggle that makes our lives so great. 🙂

  14. Phyllis Girton says:

    The cow coment was good I have a purple cow. The verse that goes with it says.” I never seen a purple cow. I hope to never see one, but I’ll tell you anyhow, I’d rather see, then be one!” Ha! Now every time I see my cow, it will remind me to sit back and just let things happen. It’s utterly cwazy!

  15. says:

    Being patient is necessary. HOWEVER, while we are in that place of patience, it is important to be aware of the unfolding events that are continually being given to us. if we are not paying attention, they go unnoticed.

    Growing up, I was taught by a gifted teacher, to PARTICIPATE but not PRECIPATE. That is, participate by being aware of what is in the present moment being shown to you. But,, you do not rush up the event (precipitate).

    You will begin to be more and more aware of this process as you continue to participate, but do not precipitate. The cow will render more milk as time moves on.

  16. Bonnie says:

    Loved it! Thank you!

  17. helga says:

    Exactly what I needed to hear today! This morning my set up phrase was “even though I think I can’t wait another day for this to unfold, I’m totally willing to accept where I am”. Thanks, Jessica! By day, you look amazing!!!

  18. Kay says:

    Patience and time are virtues! Two of many, but the universe will provide when the time is right.

  19. Jody says:

    Loved the parable of The Cow! Thanks for sharing. I think I’ll use it often to remind myself to @ let the cow be the cow”. Very useful reminder to step away from pushing and rushing and to be in the moment!

  20. Julie says:

    Loved your video. You are right on point with your message. Really loved your cow jokes. They made me lol!?

  21. Kathy says:

    You are so cool!? thanks for the cow, it make a lot of sense. Hey what do you a cow if your riding it-cow. able ? .not as good as yours but your the best. Catch you next time!

  22. Alejandra says:

    Thank you Jessica!! Love it!! Time for me to let the universe do its purpose!! Great lesson learned from the coe!! ❤️

  23. Patricia says:

    Loved it. Jessica’s insights are eye-opening, mind-expanding and fun. And what a great analogy.! Look forward to seeing more. Especially loved getting to see her really fun side at the end.

  24. maureen says:

    So simple yet so profound. I really loved the cow jokes Jessica told. it reminded me of the time my son was camping with a buddy who was being super fussy with stuffing mushrooms. My son said ‘for goodness sake mate, it’s a mushroom, just let it BE a mushroom’.
    Great video. Still chuckling.

  25. Lisa says:

    Oh I LOVE this!!! Thank you, Jessica – you are “udderly” amazing. 🙂

  26. Carol Sue Morency says:

    Jessica, you are so funny. I love your giggle! It’s contagious. Your message was right on target. Thank You,

  27. Cheryl Wilson says:

    Jessica is a true jewel! A powerful and yet gentle reminder of our place in the scheme of things. I love it when teachers use simple analogies to illustrate a profound point. You people are doing great things to make this a better world. Thank you so much!

  28. Liza says:

    Omg, I love Jessica, she’s the cutest ever. I’m adopting her as my little sister. LOL. Great video, keep up the good work!

  29. Lara says:

    Appreciative to have your delight delivery and reminder. The jokes were silly and that was a reminder to to just have some fun

  30. Beth says:

    Thanx so much as always, Nick and Jessica! I actually just listened to week one mediation from Jess and then this little story that holds so true to me right now! Patience and acceptance is the key and I am in expectation without fear and worry- and I keep tapping !! Thank you both so so much for always bringing peace and calmness to my life.

    Beth XO

  31. Loveleen says:

    I was just thinking to myself why is my life not changing yet after all the personal development I’ve been doing. Thank you for this message!!’ It came at the perfect time.

  32. Annette says:

    Great analogy Jessica. And your gooffyness is refreshing! Love you!

  33. Deborah says:

    I”m working on patience and letting God’s timing come about… Have not mastered that yet!

  34. Janet Siciak says:

    Jessica’s joy is contagious. What’s so impressive is how she can illustrate the process of connecting with the universe while balancing a cow on her head and telling dumb jokes. I love this woman. She is a gift and will, no doubt, be herd by everyone she touches.

  35. Rosalie Cryan says:

    Jessica always brightens my universe.

  36. Cath says:

    Loved it. Loved the humour. Sometimes we take things so seriously and forget the simpleness and joy there is to be had in the journey.

  37. Jean says:

    Thanks for the funny COW story … Great reminder of my need to slow down and be patient ??

  38. Jitka Matyasova says:

    Thank you, Jessica. I really needed to see this message today – I felt so frustrated! Oh, so much! And I made that all up by expecting that everything’ would unfold as I had planned. Thinking of getting myself a cow like you did 🙂 Greetings from the heart of Europe and myself.

  39. Janice says:

    Jessica summed it up perfectly, sometimes we put to much energy into our expectations around things and all we need to so is just be present in our awareness to allow things to just be and come to us in time. This is a challenge in our society where everything is either instant gratification or quick fix way of doing and thinking. I am still waiting for my partner soulmate to show up and hopefully before I am 65 I will meet a great man who loves and accepts me for all I am and wants to walk with me in life.

  40. Steven McClure says:

    A very cowrageous statement.

  41. Fay Woods says:

    Oh yes, this is just what I needed to hear as I have done my bit and just want things to happen but they are not happening quick enough for me, so I need patience and allow the cow to be the cow as it is not in my time but in the universes time. [ I just hope that it is not too much longer]

  42. Maree says:

    As usual Jessica is just amazing. Great story.

  43. Tracy says:

    The perfect message for me right now. Thank you Jessica. Thank you Mr. Cow.

  44. Sue Stocks says:

    What a great video and story! Thanks Jessica! I think I need a cow too ?

  45. Helen says:

    Jessica, that was great and it put a smile on m;y face and set the tone for my whole day. Thank You

  46. thank you says:

    appreciate your site

  47. Becca Raven says:

    Jessica 4 minute video did not load or the link is bad.

    • Nick Ortner says:

      Hi Becca. We are sorry you are having an issue with the video. You may want to open it on a new browser and see if that does the trick. We just played it on Google Chrome and Mozilla Firefox without an issue. If you continue to have an issue, please email so our customer service team can assist you.

  48. Alice says:

    Hahaha! Thanks for the reminder!

  49. Tanya says:

    Great video…so true…thank you for sending me something that I can use it in my life. I am in time, when I am exploring my life , my thoughts, my reactions, my fear and my filings. I have found out that taping solution helps me a lot. Thank you again…Tanya

  50. Belinda says:

    Very cool and very true

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