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A Short Lesson on Gratitude

Written by: Nick Ortner

Today I have a short story for you…

A blind boy sat on the steps of a building with a hat by his feet. He held up a sign which read, “I am blind, please help.”

There were only a few coins in the hat – spare change from folks as they hurried past.

A man was walking by. He took a few coins from his pocket and dropped them into the hat. He then took the sign, turned it around, and wrote some words.

Then he put the sign back in the boy’s hand so that everyone who walked by would see the new words.

Soon the hat began to fill up. A lot more people were giving money to the blind boy.

That afternoon, the man who had changed the sign returned to see how things were.

The boy recognized his footsteps and asked, “Were you the one who changed my sign this morning? What did you write?”

The man said, “I only wrote the truth. I said what you said but in a different way.” I wrote, “Today is a beautiful day, but I cannot see it.”

Both signs spoke the truth. But the first sign simply said the boy was blind, while the second sign conveyed to everyone walking by how grateful they should be to see…


When your life seems full of troubles, it seems difficult to maintain an attitude of gratitude, doesn’t it? All we see are our problems, like a blackened storm cloud casting a dark shadow over our lives.

And the times when everything just seems to be going smoothly? We often take these precious moments for granted too, don’t we? Caught up in the bliss, comfort, and familiarity of it all, we can simply forget to be thankful.

So what, then, is gratitude?

Simply put, gratitude is a habit. It’s a way of looking at the world and all the good things in it with a feeling of appreciation, regardless of whether or not your current situation is to your liking.

Gratitude is a heart-centered approach to being at peace with yourself and with all you have. When you practice this feeling of gratitude, it attracts even MORE things into your life for which to be grateful.

Go ahead, try it out right now. What or who do you have in your life to be thankful for? 🙂

Until next time,

Keep Tapping!

Nick Ortner


I’d love to read some things that you are grateful for, either big or small. Share them below!



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  1. Ginny M says:

    Nick, I have been asked to give a talk on Gratitude at church the Sunday before Thanksgiving. I love your short lesson on gratitude. May I quote you and the lesson as an opener to my talk.
    I would be very grateful if you would say yes. 🙂

    • Nick Ortner says:

      Oh sure, Ginny! But this story isn’t original to me. I don’t exactly know who the author is, but feel free to use it. 🙂

  2. SP says:

    At this moment, I am grateful to have read your inspiring words! Striving to nurture my soul.
    Thank you Mr. N.O.

  3. Fathi Joseph says:

    Thankfull to God Almighty Creator of heaven and Earth
    Thankfull to Jesus Christ who died for our sins

  4. How to feel more grateful | ALEXANDER KUMLIN says:

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  5. Donna says:

    You know I am grateful for the family and friends I have in my life. I love the TappingSolution for being here. It sure puts our troubles at bay. Yay have to do it everyday. It’s awesome.

  6. Flra deVos says:

    I am greatful every morning I awake to a new day,I’m still breathing.Greatful to God for giving me a son who encouraged me to walk daily to ease my aching body.From walking a few yards tothe letter box I now coverclimbs and slopes of 2-3 miles daily walking the dog and virtually pain free. Praise God

  7. candi browne says:

    Thank you Nick, I mean really. Your family has done so much all around the world! My heart is grateful for second chances, for hope, for guidance, for the unwavering assistance of the angels, for laughter, for the incredible beauty of our world, for trees !, for animals wild and domesticated as ‘pets’ or friends, as I think of them, for love that melts away much hardness, for learning lessons that seemed unbearable & were transformed into Light, for creativity, for having ways to assist others & have others assist me, for finally being able to bare to see some of the darkness in the world so that ways can be found to gentle it, and I’m actually grateful for the internet because it is connecting good people & opening up the world to many (including myself) like an amazing living education, for all the amazing new alternative healing techniques & inventions to solve world problems & for coffee.
    Hope & Grace always. Blessings to everyone

  8. Pawel says:

    Nick!!! I am Grateful taking part in such wonderful and helpful Tapping 7 weeks❤️❤️❤️
    And I am so grateful for lovely Jessica’s voice in Meditations❤️❤️❤️This voice is as liquid gold🙌🌹🌹🌹

  9. Louise says:

    I am grateful for everything that was already expressed. I am also thankful for my sufferings because it teaches me many lessons that I need and also to trust in my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

  10. janos pozsar says:

    Iam grateful for my talented & beautiful daughter
    who just finished university this summer.

  11. Carol says:

    I am grateful for the gift of today, that I am healthy and well , I have food , shelter and clothing, friends and family, and all the other wonderful gifts with which I have been richly blessed,but most of all for peace and love,

  12. Fitzgerald says:

    I am greatful for you and Jessica ,for my son and grandson happy thanksgiving to you both and your families

  13. Shivani says:

    Today my plans were thrown into disarray when my father (90yrs old) asked me to leave my house/dog sit (causing major distruption for the home owners) to come and help him care for his wife who’d had a recent fall. I read the email above and thought”I am so grateful my Dad is still alive, and that he wants me to come. And that I am here to do so (I’ve worked through and survived a cancer diagnosis 5 yrs ago)

  14. Julia pace says:

    Thankful for friends, family and the reverence people have for nature and each other. On a lighter note, I’m grateful for not being a turkey today.

  15. Mary Llewellyn says:

    I’m so grateful to my wonderful husband

  16. Geraldine says:

    I am so thankful for my Health and my wonderful family who I love and appreciate so very much !

    Also my wonderful friends who have surported me so much since my Husband passed 10 years ago ! They have all shown me so much love!

    Also you Nick and Jessica I am so happy you are in my life and tappping has helped me so much through many obstacles!
    I’m also thankful that Jessica came through childbirth ok and everyone is healthy and well !

    I wish you all a very happy Healthy and safe thanksgiving

    I’m so grateful to have the opportunity to send out this message!

    God bless everyone

    Love always

    Geraldine!!!!

  17. Gloria Askin says:

    Too all the Ortners and their families I am daily great full for all you have taught and brought to the world.

  18. Huong says:

    Thank You so Much for sharing the
    Magical and gracefully story the Love of Life and Hope❤️

  19. Thank you for helping people change their life one life at a time says:

    I will always be grateful to my mother for giving me my life as she chose her life over mine because the doctor said that it was her life or mine she chose me what an unselfish thing to do I am 78 I have tried to live a good life so I would be worthy of her choice she made years ago I love you forever your daughter Sylvia

  20. Vickisa Feinberg says:

    I am so thankful that I can make art, live art, share art. and work it out with ART.
    Art saves lives and I could not live without it.

  21. Barbara Jarrell says:

    I am thankful for Love… Even though Love has ups and downs… Where, oh where would we all be without Love…??? I’m thankful for You, yes You…(the One reading these words)… Because without You, I wouldn’t be here, and You wouldn’t be there… We all affect each other, even though we may not know each other. Always remember the Love…!!! I Love You…!!!

  22. barb says:

    Gratitude: Life itself and the beauty of this world!
    No matter where you are and at any time of day – simple appreciation of one’s surroundings are good enough to just be.

  23. Roberta Sulkowski says:

    I am Thankful for Surgeon who operated successfully on me. (Right Breast Cancer) – small tumor. Had Mastectomy. Starting Chemotherapy on Tuesday. Thankful for my son, Andrew, 42, who has helped me so very much. Thankful for friends and relatives for their love and positive encouragement. 😘

  24. Sharon says:

    I’m grateful that I woke up this morning! I breathe, my heart beats, I see, I hear, I smell, I feel. I’m grateful for our healthly, happy & respectful children. For my husband and all that he is to me. I’m grateful for resources, opportunities and inspirational people such as yourself who support & motivate me to expand & evolve. Thank You! 🙏🏽❤️

  25. Amita says:

    Small stories make a deep impact. Keeping writing such small episodes

  26. Laurel says:

    Dear Nick, I am so grateful you shared this story! For me, a powerful reminder of how I can shift a stressful way of perceiving or speaking about something by changing the feeling and words to be more open to a greater possibility that moves me into gratefulness. My husband fell from a ladder and broke 4 ribs, one punctured a lung.
    I am grateful he is home now and in healing mode. I realized I was stressed by everything involved, hospital, complications, caretaking etc and having moments of not being so pleasant myself at times. Yes EFT and A reframe? Today is a beautiful day and I am so thankful for the opportunity to give loving care to my husband. Today is a beautiful day and I am so thankful to remember to give loving care for me too. GRATEFULLY, Laurel Ricci

  27. Lina Pyrgioti says:

    Hi Nick Thank you so much for this special gift that you have giving me the tapping I did not knew about it at all until I watched a video of yours a few months ago I am so grateful for you. I am also very grateful and lucky for my beautiful family I am so blessed to be able to enjoy my 2 beautiful boys every day and have a warm home to return to every day I just have realized that life really is so beautiful and what really matters in life’s to be happy every day and live in the moment. I don’t take anything for granted no more everything counts
    Thank you so much 😊 again love from Athens Greece

  28. Shirley Carr says:

    I am so thankful for my son, who takes me to my Dr. app’ts. and for groceries and cares for me since his Father(my husband) passed away. I also am thankful to my Church and all my caring friends there. I have tapped in the past and than you for your reminders for me to get back to it.

  29. Simmi says:

    I am grateful for my health for having tapping knowledge to help myself, for my home, family my home.

  30. Martha Alexander says:

    Thank you for the story, which once again reminds me of the importance of my attitude!! I am grateful for God’s wonderful creations,for you and your team—spreading Tapping around the world, for my family and friends, for laughter, for nutritious food, for restful sleep, for so many things! Every day is truly a day to give thanks.

  31. valv says:

    I am so grateful for family, friends, my wonderful partner, great health, safe travel, and being alive.

  32. Kaysaree says:

    I am grateful for you Nick for doing this Tapping work and fro reminding us about these simple messages – thank you and stay blessed.

    much love from my whole family with whom I share your messages too. I also share your teachings at an Adult Men Substance-Abuse Rehab Centre in Atlanta, Trinity Christian Ministries, as a volunteer – teaching the men to reach within themselves to build their own creativity to make a new beginning.

    thank you again.

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