Tapping for Kids: How to Tap With Your Child

A simple, child-friendly way to help your kid work through anxiety, big feelings, and stressful moments — with step-by-step instructions, expert audio sessions, and real Tapping videos to watch together.

Kids can feel anxious for all kinds of reasons — school pressure, social dynamics, family changes, social media, and more. Anxiety in children is on the rise, affecting over 9% of kids in the U.S. according to the CDC. Tapping (EFT) offers a simple, child-friendly tool that can help kids manage those feelings in the moment.

Below you'll find how Tapping helps kids with anxiety, a 5-step guide to tapping with your child, practical tips, guided audio sessions from Tapping experts, and videos you can watch together. For more resources by age, visit our Kids & Parents hub.

How Tapping Helps Kids with Anxiety

  • Develops Emotional Awareness: Tapping helps kids recognize and name their feelings, a crucial first step in managing anxiety, stress, and overwhelm.
  • Provides a Self-Soothing Tool: Kids learn they have the power to calm themselves down in tough moments, which can help them feel more confident and empowered.
  • Reduces Physical Symptoms: Tapping can help ease physical signs of anxiety like a racing heartbeat, sweating, or a stomach ache, helping kids relax when anxiety strikes.
  • Shifts Negative Beliefs: Through Tapping, kids can challenge anxious thoughts like "I can't do this" or "I'm not good enough," and replace them with more empowering ones.
  • Supports Sleep: By calming the mind and body, Tapping can help kids with anxiety settle into sleep and manage bedtime fears.
  • Improves Focus: Anxiety can make it hard for kids to stay present. Tapping can help them step out of anxious feelings and back to the task at hand.

How to Tap With a Kid in 5 Steps

You don't need to be an expert to tap with your child. Keep it simple, keep it light, and follow their lead.

  1. Set up the moment. Find a quiet-ish spot, get down to their level, and let them know you're going to do something together that can help them feel better.
  2. Name the feeling in their words. Ask what's going on, and use whatever words they use — "my tummy hurts," "I'm scared," "I don't want to go." Don't correct their language; just reflect it back.
  3. Rate it 0–10. For older kids, ask "how big is this feeling, 0 to 10?" For younger kids, use a hand-span instead — hands far apart is a big feeling, hands close together is a small one.
  4. Tap the points with a silly or simple phrase. Tap through the same points used in adult Tapping (see Tapping 101 for the full point-by-point guide), repeating a short phrase in their words — "this scared feeling," or even something silly to lighten the mood.
  5. Re-check and celebrate. Ask for the number (or hand-span) again. If it dropped, celebrate it out loud. If it's still high, that's okay — tap through the points again.

4 Ways to Use Tapping for Kids with Anxiety

  1. Tapping for Yourself — Kids often mirror the emotional states of the adults around them. As a parent or caregiver, using Tapping to manage your own stress helps you create a calmer environment for your child and navigate the situation with more clarity and ease.
  2. Tapping for "First Aid" — Tapping can offer quick relief when kids are feeling anxious, helping them calm down and regulate right when it's needed most.
  3. Tapping for Anxiety Prevention — If your child has fears about certain situations, you can help them use Tapping proactively — ahead of a test, a social situation, or a new experience — so you can both face it with more calm and confidence.
  4. Tapping for Self-Regulation — Encourage your child to use Tapping regularly, not just in moments of crisis. This helps build emotional resilience and self-awareness over time.

Practical Tips for Tapping with Anxious Kids

  • Model It Yourself: Lead by example and let your kids see you tapping for yourself. Using it to become more regulated models the effect for your child.
  • Make It a Routine: Set aside daily "Tapping time." Consistency helps build the habit and provides regular relief.
  • Create a Special Space: Designate a comfortable "Tapping spot" in your home.
  • Keep It Fun: Use stories, humor, or silly phrases to make Tapping entertaining and engaging.
  • Use Their Words: Match your language to their age and understanding. Don't expect them to always verbalize their feelings — you may need to guess and offer suggestions.
  • Focus on Specifics: When you can, tap on particular situations that trigger your child's anxiety. Specific memories or scenarios are a great place to start.
  • Be Patient: For more severe anxiety, improvement may take time and consistent practice.
  • Get Professional Help When Needed: Tapping can go a long way in helping a kid with anxiety, but you aren't your child's therapist. For persistent or severe anxiety, talk to a pediatrician or licensed mental health professional.

Kids often learn Tapping quickly, and with less emotional resistance than adults, it tends to work fast. Bringing Tapping into your child's life early — while habits are still forming — gives them a life skill for building emotional resilience they can carry with them.

Guided Audio Sessions from Tapping Experts

Listen to these sessions from practitioners who specialize in tapping with kids, teens, and the parents supporting them.

A Parent's Greatest Dream: Helping Children Grow Healthy and Strong Through Tapping — Dr. Kim D'Eramo

We know that many adult issues stem from childhood experiences, so wouldn't it be amazing to help our children work through their issues while they're still young? Dr. D'Eramo, a traditionally trained MD, discovered the results Tapping could produce and now uses it in her own practice, teaching other doctors how to bring it into theirs. Whether you're a parent or a practitioner, you'll learn the key elements for tapping with children, how to approach physical, emotional, and behavioral issues, hands-on advice for weaving Tapping into your relationship with your kids, and what to do when you feel frustrated and unsure how to help.

Tapping for the Busy Mom — Tamara Donn

Tamara Donn helps stressed, overwhelmed moms build new habits so they can be more present with their children, more productive with their time, and experience more peace in their lives. In this session she teaches how to fit Tapping into a busy schedule and get real results.

Tapping for Teens — Jenn Goddard

In this session, learn how to approach teens specifically and help them use Tapping in a way that fits their age and stage.

Tapping for Parents with Children with ADD/ADHD — Paul Keene

When it comes to ADD and ADHD, most focus goes to helping the child, but the parent is often overlooked. Many parents struggle with the exhaustion and perseverance it takes to support a hyperactive child, and having a child with special needs puts real pressure on the family. In this session, Paul Keene teaches parents to support themselves both individually and as a couple, and to use that connection to help create more peace in the home.

How Your Children Can Conquer Anxiety with Tapping — Steve Wells

In this session you'll learn how social media may be adding to your child's anxiety, a quick and reliable way to tap to calm yourself and your children, and a simple technique for making Tapping a fun, exciting activity for kids.

Tapping Videos for Kids

Want a visual on how to tap with your child? The videos below give you an idea of how you can do it together.

Our Kids Tapping Videos

Stress Relief for Kids

Stress Relief for Children - Tapping Solution Foundation in Schools

Tapping for Kids with Brad Yates

Tapping for Kids – EFT with Brad Yates

Tapping for Kids – Fear – EFT with Brad Yates

Tapping for Kids – Sadness – EFT with Brad Yates

Tapping for Kids – Sports – EFT with Brad Yates

Tapping is a simple stress management tool that can empower your child to manage their emotions and find relief from anxiety. For more age-specific tools, books, and app sessions for your family, visit our Kids & Parents hub.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Tapping for Kids

Q: What age can kids start tapping?

There's no set minimum age. Even very young kids can be guided through tapping by a parent using simple words and a hand-span instead of a 0-10 scale. As kids get older, they can learn the points themselves and use Tapping more independently.

Q: Do kids need to say the exact tapping words?

No. Use their words, not a script. Kids often can't articulate exactly what they're feeling, so it's okay to guess or offer suggestions, and even to keep it playful or silly while still tapping through the points.

Q: How long does a tapping session with a kid take?

It can be as short as a minute or two of "first aid" tapping in a tough moment, or a longer guided session like the audios above. There's no set length -- follow your child's attention span and stop once they feel better.

Q: Is tapping safe for kids? When should I get professional help?

Tapping is a simple, gentle self-soothing tool, but it isn't a substitute for professional care. For persistent or severe anxiety, or if you're ever unsure, talk to a pediatrician or a licensed mental health professional.

Q: Where can I find more kids tapping sessions in the app?

The Tapping Solution App includes guided sessions built specifically for children and the parents supporting them.

Important Notice: The Tapping Solution App is intended for general wellness purposes, including stress management and emotional wellness support. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease or medical condition. If you have been diagnosed with a medical or mental health condition, please consult with your healthcare provider. This app is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.