The Science: Why Your Brain Screams Danger
Fear of heights—acrophobia—is one of humanity's most common phobias, and evolutionary psychology suggests why. For our ancestors, a fall from height was often fatal. No second chances. Your amygdala evolved to trigger intense fear responses to height cues: the visual expansion of the ground below, the lack of solid support, the sensation of instability. This kept your ancestors alive by making them extremely cautious near edges.
The challenge is that this ancient system doesn't calibrate to modern safety measures. Standing behind a glass barrier on an observation deck is objectively safe—but your amygdala sees "high up, nothing solid below" and triggers the same panic response your ancestor would have felt standing on a cliff edge. The rational knowledge that you're safe doesn't reach the fear circuit fast enough to prevent the response.
Tapping works by directly calming the amygdala's activation while you're focused on height-related fears. By stimulating acupressure points, you send safety signals that interrupt the fear response. Studies show this can reduce phobic reactions significantly, often in just a few sessions. The goal isn't to eliminate all caution—appropriate respect for heights is adaptive—but to prevent the paralyzing panic that keeps you from safe activities you want to enjoy.
The visual cliff response: Infants as young as 6 months show fear when placed on a visual cliff (a glass surface over a drop). This suggests height fear has innate components, not just learned ones—which is why it often doesn't respond to logic. You need to work with the nervous system directly.
Real Results
Atholl
"I am 62 years old and as a 7 year old boy my father brought me to see the William Wallace memorial in Edinburgh Scotland. I suddenly took this fear of heights that it was a real struggle for my father to get me down. This single incident changed my life for the worst."
Atholl avoided anything to do with heights for decades. Living in an area of Scotland famous for mountain climbing, he couldn't participate. His dream of joining the army was a definite no. He avoided holidays with friends skiing or going up famous sky-high buildings. He had no fear of flying but couldn't go more than three floors up in a hotel. I found a Dr Eileen O'Kane from Armagh who over a Skype call chatted with me and went over the Tapping motions with me. I went out into my farm yard and climbed the tallest hay shed and took a photo from the edge of the roof. From that day to now I have skied and went up many tourist high buildings around the world. It was a life changing moment for me and my family.
Christine
"We have a Lighthouse in our town that we visit when we have out of town guests. On many occasions, I have tried to ascend the spiral staircase to get to the top and enjoy the amazing views but every attempt ended in failure and disappointment when my fear of heights gripped me and stopped me from climbing to the top."
When Christine's adult grandson came to visit, she desperately wanted to accompany him to the top. She decided to see if Tapping could help her overcome her fear. She began Tapping on it the morning of the planned visit and on the car ride there. Although I was still very nervous, I was finally able to complete the climb to the top. It was amazing! I had such a wonderful experience and sense of accomplishment. I attribute my success in overcoming my fear to Tapping. I have shared this experience with friends because I am truly grateful and amazed at the power of Tapping.
Gina
"My husband planned a sight seeing excursion (knowing I'm afraid of heights) he scheduled it anyway, and I had no idea it was a sight seeing tour of Mount Evans! OMG! Narrow winding roads all the way up 13,000 feet! When I asked my husband 'did you know it was this high up?' He replied 'yes, but I didn't want to tell you because you would have panicked before we even got in the car.'"
Gina had been suffering from Fibromyalgia and had started Tapping regularly. When she found herself unexpectedly on a mountain road, her husband's surprise backfired—at first. As they reached the top, she began to panic with rapid breathing, dizziness, and nausea. I began Tapping on the fear, the anxiety, and that all is well I am safe; and on the way down the hill I was able to take some beautiful pictures of the mountains. As soon as we got back down the mountain, I felt relaxed, and was able to have a nice dinner in the city. Thanks to EFT I was able to enjoy the rest of my trip!
Working With Height Fear
Start with images: Tap while looking at pictures or videos of heights. This lets you work with the fear in a controlled way.
Break it down: What specifically triggers you? Looking down? Edges? Instability? Glass floors? Each component can be tapped on separately.
Gradual exposure: After Tapping reduces the fear, gentle exposure in real situations (with Tapping before and after) helps consolidate the change.
Reduce Your Height Fear
Use these sessions to work on fear of heights and related anxiety.